Matchmaker
Brigitte Weil

INTERVIEW WITH BRIGITTE WEIL

Brigitte Weil was recruited by a national matchmaking firm in 2015 and fell in love with helping others fall in love. She launched her own agency, Brigitte Weil Matchmaking, in 2000, with offices in Manhattan and New Hope. Weil is a Certified Matchmaker through The Global Love Institute, the largest certifying international matchmaking organization. Here, she discusses the art of finding a partner.

Why did you get into matchmaking?
I didn’t grow up thinking, “I want to become a matchmaker,” but I always knew I wanted to help people. When I made my first match and realized I could help two people achieve something so vital that they could not find themselves, I was hooked. I stay deeply immersed in the matchmaking industry as it is constantly evolving. I attend regular conferences and retreats designed to help matchmakers grow, collaborate, and stay connected, so that we can best serve singles who don’t want to remain single.

What can a client expect when signing up with a matchmaker?
My clients can expect a personalized, tailored, hands-on experience designed around one’s goals, values, and lifestyle. There is an onboarding period prior to the first introduction, where I spend time thoroughly understanding who my client is, what they want, and what really matters. We then have a styling and photo shoot, and any other necessities that I deem will set my client up for success. I like to think of myself as a strategic partner guiding clients through curated introductions, thoughtful feedback, support, and accountability throughout the journey.

Why should someone work with a matchmaker?
Someone works with a matchmaker because they want a more intentional, efficient, and personalized approach to securing a meaningful relationship. This can be anyone, at any age. It’s a smarter, more supportive alternative than doing it alone, plus it’s a huge savings in time and energy. Matchmakers take the time to fully understand clients and their goals so we can filter out incompatible options and curate intentional, screened, and vetted matches. When one is intentional about who they are looking for, there is a greater chance for aligned and forever connections that result in the kind of relationships clients want.

What are some tips for knowing if your date is a match or not?
The main goal of a first date is to decide if you want a second date. I suggest keeping an ear out for similarities in goals, lifestyles, future plans, values, and the important stuff that becomes the glue to longevity. It’s hard to evaluate all this on one date, so unless the date is a disaster, I may suggest keeping channels open for further exploration.

Is Valentine’s Day a prime time to meet a match?
I think every day is an ideal day to explore a new connection or fall in love, but Valentine’s Day does offer a built-in opportunity to evaluate what one wants in a partner and potentially improve one’s love life, whether partnered or not. I am big on intention because it sets the tone for meaningful, aligned connections instead of leaving things to chance.

Why is a strong romantic connection important for couples who have been together for a long time?
Romance keeps the emotional connection vibrant and reminds each other that they are chosen and valued. Couples who invest in romance deepen their bond, creating a sense of partnership that stays resilient over time. I grew up surrounded by relationship longevity—my parents are now married for 61 years, my maternal grandparents were together for 79 years, and my paternal grandparents had a timeless wartime love story that taught me so much about what authentic bonds look like.

What types of romantic dates do you recommend for Valentine’s Day in the Upper Makefield Township area?
Quiet and intimate spots are my favorite go-tos. I love Charcoal BYOB, The Salt House, and the Swan Hotel. I also suggest thinking out of the box: Surprise your special person with a thermos of great hot chocolate and a pretty stroll along the Delaware River.

What are some gift recommendations for Valentine’s Day?
One can never go wrong with chocolate or flowers. Another idea is to create your own personal card instead of a store-bought one. Overall, it’s important to take time to buy or create something that makes your partner feel special and valued.